My ex and I had been married for 13 years before we decided to divorce. It was a very messy and bitter divorce, mainly because he was being extremely unfair. I cannot regret our marriage though because I would not have my four children otherwise. I knew that I needed to hire top family law attorneys because my husband, at that time, wanted the children, the house, our other properties, and the majority of our banking accounts. He was being gracious by allowing me to have my vehicle and all the clothes he had bought me.

While that was the kind of man he was at the time of our divorce, it certainly was not the man I had married. We had no money then, so our love was enough. (more…)